Treat them mean to keep them keen

Seeming too keen

There is a famous saying that goes, ‘Treat them mean to keep them keen’. There isn’t a famous saying that goes, ‘Act real keen to keep them keen’. Over conveying keenness can be one of the most unattractive things you can do. This is one of the main factors of why so many guys struggle to impress women. By acting as a bright eyed kid in a candy store, you are basically putting her on a pedestal.

In her mind you are conveying Betaness as you see her as the prize. By being excessively nice and keen to please it will tell her you like her a lot without even really knowing her. Her mind doesn’t work the same. Infact she may even become suspicious, as it smacks of someone lacking confidence or blinded by her beauty. It doesn’t trigger attraction.

A fix:

It is far more powerful to mix up keenness with a laid back attitude and occasional glimpses of slight boredom that suggests you are not concerned with the outcome. Mixing your vibe can really keep her on her toes. To maximize this dynamic, you really need to understand the art of push and pull.

All is explained in the book, 21st CENTURY SEDUCTION ARTIST, out now!

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