WIN THE DATING GAME

One of the most common mistakes in the modern dating game that nice guys make, is fixating on one girl

Dating several different girls at the same time is actually one of the most powerful tricks to developing awesome game. This point is always a contraversial one mind you.

In no way is it being suggested that you cheat on several women. We are talking about the early stage of dating, during which she will have no qualms about dumping your ass for someone else she had been dating at the same time.

Infact women do this all the time. It is the way the dating game has gone, especially since influential shows like ‘Sex and the city’, have infiltrated the minds of a whole generation of women around the planet.

If you have only just met a girl, then you are both strangers to each other. No-one owes anyone anything. In dating you, she is not promising to marry you. She is trying the goods out before she buys.

If you have ever had the misfortune of shopping with a women, than you will know how many times she can change her mind before she makes her purchase.

These days she is tempted to treat dating in a similar way. This will help explain some of the flakes. A guy who fixates on a stranger, and places a high expectation on the outcome, can often find it hard to contain his anxiousness.

He may become jealous, or concerned when she does not return his calls. He may become distracted from work and things he needs to take care of in his life.

His ego and imagination may also work overtime in  creating the illusion that she is yours already…even before she is ready to committ, thus creating a massive fear of loss.

She could easily flake at any point for numerous reasons, even if you believe you have established enough attraction.

You may infact have not established as much attraction as the other guy she was seeing. What are you gonna do? Sue her?

A fix:

While dating a girl you like, there is no harm in seeing other girls, for lunch or coffee. It will aid your game in several ways. It will keep your skills sharpened, and you can actually select the girl you prefer based on the comparison.

If the girl you had your eyes set on, flakes, don’t fall apart. You have already established attraction with another girl that maybe has a better chance of a relationship flourishing.

It’s about stacking the odds in your favour. If you do fall for each other, then it is ok to let the other girls down at this point. No-one is getting their heart broken. You barely know each other.

Learn the whole story and the other 66 common mistakes men make in the game, in the book, “21st CENTURY SEDUCTION”

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3 Comments

  1. I appreciate, cause I found exactly what I was looking for. You’ve ended my four day long hunt! God Bless you man. Have a nice day. Bye

  2. cute! thank you.

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  3. Very useful, thank you.


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