SUPERIOR ALPHA MALE

“I like a man passionate about what he does. If his isn’t passionate about his own life, how can he be passionate about me?”

Definition of The superior Alpha male

1. Either the leader of the pack or a man with leadership qualities, who is comfortable in his own skin.

2. He is self-assured and lives by his own terms, while being highly successful with the opposite sex, due to charisma, passion, humour, playfulness, seduction skills, social set-up and social savvy that can charm the birds out the trees and the knickers off a nun.

3. He craves abundance and empowerment as opposed to greed and power, based on his more balanced demeanour and soul, thus he lacks maniacal delusions of grandeur.

4. He has just the right mix of machismo, style and class, with a light sprinkling of femininity that makes him better boyfriend material and plays the game of life without fear, treating it as a big adventure.

5. He has also a hunger for growth, knowledge, new ideas, experience and good times.

6. He is defined by being a male in charge of his own destiny and having high replication value to the females of the species.

7. He is a product of human evolution, where survival of the fittest has been replaced by survival of the smartest. The smartest being able to cultivate a lifestyle full of opportunity, adventure and sex with females of his choice, by virtue of his status as an apex male.

"I find it so sexy when a man knows what he wants and where he is going!"

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WIN THE DATING GAME

One of the most common mistakes in the modern dating game that nice guys make, is fixating on one girl

Dating several different girls at the same time is actually one of the most powerful tricks to developing awesome game. This point is always a contraversial one mind you.

In no way is it being suggested that you cheat on several women. We are talking about the early stage of dating, during which she will have no qualms about dumping your ass for someone else she had been dating at the same time.

Infact women do this all the time. It is the way the dating game has gone, especially since influential shows like ‘Sex and the city’, have infiltrated the minds of a whole generation of women around the planet.

If you have only just met a girl, then you are both strangers to each other. No-one owes anyone anything. In dating you, she is not promising to marry you. She is trying the goods out before she buys.

If you have ever had the misfortune of shopping with a women, than you will know how many times she can change her mind before she makes her purchase.

These days she is tempted to treat dating in a similar way. This will help explain some of the flakes. A guy who fixates on a stranger, and places a high expectation on the outcome, can often find it hard to contain his anxiousness.

He may become jealous, or concerned when she does not return his calls. He may become distracted from work and things he needs to take care of in his life.

His ego and imagination may also work overtime in  creating the illusion that she is yours already…even before she is ready to committ, thus creating a massive fear of loss.

She could easily flake at any point for numerous reasons, even if you believe you have established enough attraction.

You may infact have not established as much attraction as the other guy she was seeing. What are you gonna do? Sue her?

A fix:

While dating a girl you like, there is no harm in seeing other girls, for lunch or coffee. It will aid your game in several ways. It will keep your skills sharpened, and you can actually select the girl you prefer based on the comparison.

If the girl you had your eyes set on, flakes, don’t fall apart. You have already established attraction with another girl that maybe has a better chance of a relationship flourishing.

It’s about stacking the odds in your favour. If you do fall for each other, then it is ok to let the other girls down at this point. No-one is getting their heart broken. You barely know each other.

Learn the whole story and the other 66 common mistakes men make in the game, in the book, “21st CENTURY SEDUCTION”

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LIFE IS LIKE A BRUCE LEE MOVIE

Someone once said life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get. Well, though not a complete misnomer, it’s certainly not a very helpful philosophical view now is it? Unless you have a crystal ball, then the future is impossible to accurately predict.

You can certainly strongly influence your outcomes. In fact, the kind of company you keep and the conditioning you are exposed to will hugely determine everything in your life from success in relationships to success in your financial standing. Within your mind is the key to manifesting most of your outcomes.

There has never been more conclusive evidence to suggest, that as individuals we all have far more power to not only influence the outcomes in our own lives, but contribute to the greater picture. The amount of thought energy we emit is directly linked to what is called the collective consciousness. This ultimately determines the way in which the world manifests today.

If you are a young man, attempting to understand his place in the world, then do not ask society for your answers. Your answers are within. Shakespeare, known for the occasional bright view, once said,

All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages.”

This may be one of the most helpful philosophical views you can absorb. Add this to a gold nugget from the Future president of America (don’t rule it out folks!), The Trumpster himself, then you have a simple but effective way of approaching your re-invented lifestyle.

His motto simply is, “Think Big!” The identities you may find yourself trapped in now, are not who you really are. You can re-invent who you are and want to be anytime you want. Now add a gold nugget from Bruce Lee, and you can really begin cooking. You will have some fucking great ingredients to spice up your life.

Bruce Lee says, “Be like water.” That doesn’t mean be wet. It means be fluid, and adaptable. If you only applied these 3 views to your life, you can already begin to see how to create more exciting possibilities. When you fully embrace this attitude, you can create the adventure that becomes your life.

If you simply buy into what society and the box provides, then you will fail to realise who you really are. As a free spirited virile young man, much of your adventure will be provided by the seduction arts. The art of seducing amazing women. This is only possible when you have enough ‘attraction networth’. That is the combination of authentic confidence and experience.

This is why it is preferable to pursue other diverse activities that will constantly challenge you. Explore ideas and experiences that will shape a man, that female seek to align with. In many cases they will have no choice in being attracted to such a guy. So remember, this movie is about you, and not the girl.

What character or characters do you want to play, and how thick do you see the plot? Do you see yourself as the victim or the hero? What do you want to create or change? Who are you inspiring or destroying? Who are your angels or demons? Be creative. Be explorative. Be open minded. Think bigger, and live bigger still.

This is your journey, and no-one can judge you for being who you need to be. There are no rules, except the rules you choose to hold or let go off. It’s your call. The more you look within, the more you will hear the answers. Whether you want to live like a playboy, or build an empire, so you can change the world, or meditate on a mountainside, whatever you choose, will be right, if you are tuned into your soul.

Maybe you will choose all of them. What a fucking great movie & film character that would be!

If you are fresh to this attitude, then at least try it, and you can make a better educated opinion on what you think life is about. If you are a young man, new to philosophy, here are 3 simple but powerful quotes to live your life by. They are pretty solid and will almost certainly serve you well.

1. The world is a stage

2. Think big

3. Be like water

Now get off the net and go forth & create your movie…now…go! It’s in your hands!

by Vio

Alpha body language

“We can’t decide who saw you first. Would you settle for a threesome?”

Much of how a female responds to congruent body language will be out of her control, so do not underestimate your ability to generate attraction, despite having a face like a bag of spanners. We are not all blessed with conventional handsome features, but the good news is that by acting like you are the best looking guy in the joint, you will press most of the same triggers any how.

As much as we are hardwired to pick up on all body language, social conditioning has largely nullified this in most people, as we have in the main been trained to be submissive and to conform from an early age. Even most traditional etiquette is in fact the act of paying deference to superiors, which is actually interpreted internally by most females as being Beta. This is why being too polite and nice is a big turn off. The body language associated is often very Beta.

“4 martinis, shaken and not stirred.”

In the book “21st Century seduction artist” you will learn how to convey powerful body language that supercharges your charisma, and conveys a higher Attraction Net worth. You will also learn how to read all her subtle signals like a book. You will have a far better chance of understanding what she is really saying, no matter what is coming out of her mouth.

“Mmmm. Hey mister, if you look at me like that, I promise I will bite…anywhere you please.”

Without this understanding, it becomes extremely hard to escalate to deeper levels. It becomes a guessing game. What you want to do is to take guessing out of the equation. A sense of certainty will embellish your vibe, so much so, that she will have trouble you viewing as a Beta.

All is explained in the book, 21st CENTURY SEDUCTION ARTIST, out now!

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